I know that B-listing is majorly frowned on, but is it considered a Blist when invites haven't been sent?
We orginally had to cut a bunch of people because we have 200 immediate family members add in the 8 w/SOs FI works with (very small company) and we had 250 invited to the wedding. We are paying for a mininium of 200 guests no matter what (that is the agreement on our room). We cut a bunch of parents friends, family friends, and some of our distant friends from college from our list. We figured invite 250 minus the % of typical no shows and we're around 200. Well just last night another one of my cousins emailed to tell me that they won't be able to come.
So do we risk it and invite our previlously "b-list" friends? I'm worried that these soft 'no' might change their mind and we end up with 300 people there (the room can hold 350 but my budget can't)