We aren't inviting any singles with plus ones to our AHR, just people with spouses or those in committed relationships. Which is most of the people attending. My dad's Aunt is invited along with her 2 daughters. Her brother (my grandfather) and the rest of my family will be there so she won't be lacking with people to spend time with.
Her daughter called my mom yesterday to find out if we'll invite her boyfriend... and my mom said yes without asking me. Apparently he's not even her "boyfriend," my mom talked to the Aunt yesterday and found out that she's only been on 3 dates with the guy.
Does 3 dates constitute an invite? Granted-- we're not sending out invites until late July/August, but isn't it a bit strange to be asked to invite this guy when we don't even know if they're going to be together by then. He's hardly her "boyfriend."
Maybe I'm just getting annoyed over nothing, that's totally possible. Just wanted to feel you guys out on this one.
ETA: Last night when I told FI about it he said that he wasn't comfortable with anyone that we need to BOTH be introduced to at the event coming. We're having a very intimate group of 62 invited, so having people we don't know there would feel a bit weird for us.