So I work in an office with 6 other ladies who I have always thought of as friends. I requested their addresses about a month ago and planned to invite them all to the wedding. However, about a week ago, I was promoted to office supervisor and are now the boss of all of these ladies.
I am getting ready to sent out save-the-dates (my vistaprint groupon expires soon) and I'm not sure if I should still invite them. Obviously I would love to stay friends with everyone but I understand that the dynamic has changed between us and I'm not sure if that puts them in a tough spot...
What advice can you give me on this? Since I asked for addresses before, would it now be ill-mannered to not send STDs/invites? Also, if your boss invited you to their wedding, would you feel obligated to go whether you wanted to or not? Should I just keep them off the STD list, see how the relationships might change and revisit this when it's time to mail invitations (they all know the date already since I requested the time off as soon as it was set)?
Just trying to get an outside opinion on this. TIA.