I just rec'd an RSVP that had a question mark in the 'will attend' field. What am I supposed to do with this? I'm guessing that when I call them to ask they are going to tell me they don't know if they can come, but how does one respond to that?
I could understand if it was an informal party where I was making the food, but this is being catered and the meals aren't cheap. I suppose I could just eat the cost and include them in my numbers, but what if everyone just responded 'I don't know?' and didn't show up? ARGH!