Hey brides! So this is my problem, i really want to have an adult only reception, the only kids that were going to be there would be the flowe girl and ring bearer (ages 8,6) and two usher that are my husband to be's brother ages 12,14. but my husband tro be also has a few cousins that are around that same age, and his family is fraking out at me because i said no to them. My mother is againist kids all together and she doesn't understand the reasons why i can't leave my husband to be's brothers out of the reception all together. I don't know if i should just say no kids at all or let kids come. what do i do??