Hi everyone,I have a tricky situation and I wanted to hear your thoughts. I have been going back and forth of who should be in my bridal party. There are two girls, one I am pretty close with, I felt like I should ask her but I haven't because she's been on 4 weddings in the past year or so and she has been trying to get pregnant. I wasn't sure she would want to be in it, but now that I am looking back on things I think I may have hurt her feelings by not asking her. Is it okay for me to explain the reasons I haven't asked yet and let her decide if it would fit in her life to be a bridesmaid? I am terribly nervous I will ask someone and they will say no!