Im sending out my invites next Wed. Wedding is Oct 16th. Its a Friday, thats why I thought to give people extra notice to take off work if they need/want to. The RSVP date is Sept 5th. Is that too soon? Does it give people enough time to respond?I need to decide on a menu 6 weeks before the wedding. I was kinda of hoping to decide on the menu based on how many people are coming to the wedding, basically cant afford to feed everyone the premium meal.My invites are done so its not like I can change it or anything but now Im wondering if people will think Im a tool. Im not severly stressing about it at all, Im just curious. In my area it seems people send out their invites longer than the knot norm of 6 weeks before the wedding.