My fiancé and I are planning a destination wedding to take place over a year from now. We want to keep it under 100 people and I have a lot of family. Tonight I got a phone call from a girl I played with when we were growing up, but have not talked to since I graduated 3 years ago. We also weren't good friends in high school. She was my best friends little sister in high school. I am not even friends with the best friend anymore. Anywho, she called to say that she would like to be invited to my wedding. I explained to her that we do not even have a location set and I have to worry about family first. She got hysterical and started crying and saying that she loved me and wanted to be invited and was upset her sister wasn't a bridesmaid. Turns out she was with one of my friends who my maid of honor. So, then my maid of honor gets on the phone and starts telling me I should invite her and I've hurt her feelings and it's just one person. I tried to explain to her and tell her it is my wedding and I don't even have a list yet. They were both hysterical and got off the phone. I am not worried about ruining a friendship that does not exist by not inviting this girl, but I’m afraid it will affect my friendship with my maid of honor. And I don't know how to handle the situation with her now.How does everyone else decide who to leave off the invite list and how to deal with upset people?