crap. not like i didnt expect the adding of random guests to happen, because it happens to everyone, but i just sent my invites 2 freakin days ago and the first 2 responses ive gotten (by phone and in person, none have been mailed back yet of course) were "i will probably bring someone but dont know who yet"neither of them were invited with guest, or dating anyone currently or even recently, and on top of that, both already knew our policy of "no relationship, no date". and they will both know about half the people there so its not like they will be sitting alone.grr. i know it happens to everyone im just feeling nervous now because its the first 2 responses so im worried this will be what everyone says now.just... grr.and yes, i explained to both of them. and reminded them very nicely that we had discussed this in the past.