grandma says &quot;no white dress because FI is divorced&quot; ::sigh::

hydrangea082010 · September 2009

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sarabellam · September 2009

Tell Grandma to get bent. ::J/K, sort of:: Nobody, other than perhaps your grandmother, sill even notice.

nhenry1 · September 2009

If she brings it up again, tell grandma that it's not 1950 anymore. (Thank God). Also, if she continues like this, I would make it known to her that you only plan on inviting people to your wedding who support your relationship with your FI. After all, if she doesn't support your marriage, it doesn't make much sense for her to be involved in the wedding.

BubbleJ · September 2009

I'm a bit late to this but my uncle (divorced) got married a few years ago and it was her first wedding. They had the big white wedding and it was lovely. And no one even though about him being married before. Wear what you want.

sol_star · September 2009

DH had been married before and we had been living together for nine months before we got married. I wore a white dress and the only comments I heard about were how pretty the dress was.Of course you could always go full old school and have your groom kidnap you and the groomsmen fend off the other guest at sword point until you are legally married...