I belong to a church near Columbus Circle and would like to get married there. For a reception, I have been trying to find a venue for ~175 guests for a Saturday evening for $140 or less per person. I would love for the venue to have some outdoor terrace or garden space. This just doesn't seem to exist in or near the city.
Is it too much to ask guests to attend a ceremony near Columbus Circle (Manhattan) and then drive (or perhaps train or organized transportation) to Poughkeepsie for the reception? It would be about an hour and forty minute drive, or similar duration train ride.
What do you think? How far is reasonable to ask guests to drive between ceremony and reception?