Maybe I've been around P&E too long

bel138

I got my first write in on the RSVP! I'm actually surprised it took this long, but I did postcards and actually listed people's names with check boxes. So, maybe most people got the message.Is it sick and twisted that I'm actually excited to call these people and tell them no? Maybe it's because I didn't want them invited to begin with and I'm hoping that telling them their kid can't come will cause them to decline.

sarabellam

I like the way you think, bel.

Nebb

Do it Do it Do it!!

LesPaul

haha. It's the right thing to do.

betrothed123

Not sick and twisted at all

[Deleted User]

make sure to report back.

morainemom

bel - it will get better, you will get people who RSVP yes and then won't show.  You will get people who RSVP no and then change their mind a couple of days before the wedding and call and ask for the swordfish.Hey - how is the dress coming along?  Are you happy with it?  My daughter's wedding was last Friday and it was wonderful.I honestly can't wait to hear about your big day because you are planning such a cool wedding.  I think your dress is going to be amazing.  Please promise to come back to the local and post all the details and photos. 

ZRex

Let us know how it goes! I have a feeling I will have to do a lot of these.

[Deleted User]

I'm kinda excited for you, esp since you didn't want to invite them to begin with. Tell us how it goes.

ExpatPumpkin

Bel - I took a look at your bio. Very cool! Question: What's a wedding crown? You mentioned you were making them. We got married in a Catholic mass too and no one ever mentioned a crown... Thanks! Oh, and I would be kinda excited to make that call too. Let us know how it went