My fiance's aunt, whom I've only met once, briefly, just sent me this message on facebook, without even befriending me first.....jerky or innocent? "Hi, ****. Just got the wedding notification in the mail. Very cute. But, please correct your records. Somehow the envelope got to me although the address was incorrect - so - here is the correct address - ******. Also, our last name was spelled incorrectly. The correct spelling is ******. Okay, that should do it for now." At first read, I was offended because she presumed I was responsible for the mistakes even though it's obvious I obtained her information from my fiance's family, as well as presumed that I was also solely responsible for the Save-The-Dates. I was also initially irked that she bothered to look me up on facebook and message me without friending me, and without trying to contact my fiance first. Secondly, the typos were very minor, as evidenced by her receiving the STD in a timely manner. I know I'm overreacting by analyzing it at all, but I just found it annoying to deal with such petty things when it was completely unnecessary, and when we are nearly strangers. Thoughts and suggestions on how to respond? Thanks!