Hi ladies, My wedding is on November 7, less than 2 weeks away. This morning, a close family friend of FI was tragically killed in a car accident. This person was like a second father to FI and was very much a part of his life. I feel devastated. FI and I need to make he tough decision about whether or not we should postpone the wedding. 1/3 of the guest list knew this person and many were very close to him. His entire family planned to attend our wedding. I feel like this is too much to take in in just a week. I called the reception site today and they told us that we could reschedule without a financial penalty but that we needed to let them know by tomorrow morning. I haven't contacted our photographer, DJ or florist, and we also have to consider that our sisters are getting married in April, June and July so postponing would mean working around their weddings as well. I am trying not to be selfish right now, because I am very upset, but it is hard to think about a day that is supposed to be happy and joyous being gloomed down by something so sad. FI says it will be too much trouble to reschedule everything and the honeymoon, which is booked at the couples resort in jamaica. I don't know what to do. I don't even want to talk about this right now with FI but we need to make a decision by tomorrow. I feel really upset and empty and I am not sure how I will feel in a week. Please send us some knottie love. We need it right now.