The poster from a couple of days ago that posted about eloping in secret, having 4 parties, and doing so because her BF/FI/hubby needs a visa just posted an apology and update on NEY.She apologizes for attacking everyone, and understands the "rude" responses she got based on her attitude. She also says that she realizes that the entire idea was/is a bad one, and is looking for advice on what to do now.I actually kind of feel bad for her.So... see? Here at P&E we do help people