Thank you all for letting me get it out, and thank you for your advice. FI was not here too long, as he has a lot to do before he leaves. We had a nice talk and I asked him to write thing he and I can do separately, and together, to work on this problem. He told me he has missed being with me the past few days and was very willing to work on things. We also have the support of a mutual friend, which helps. He said he is going to look into his insurance for help while he is away, and he will keep me updated. I told him I will also look in to my insurance so we can do couples counseling. Thanks again for earlier. It helped me prep for the convo we had when he stopped over. Onward and upward...