Hey you with the long name...

shellydiane820

Its not the doc lying to him...its the fact that she's telling you about it.Not professional on her part.

crfische

Gah. What a gomerface!

salt78

Yeah I'm sure she was really telling the truth about all of that.

tmm140

Yeah I agree--she seems extremely unprofessional and should be fired for telling other people's sessions or whatever.

lillianchameleon

We're going to couple's therapy.... so its not a confidentially problem.  I apologize about the DD.  Its frustrating when your going through a rough time and everyone says your life is BS or something? 

tmm140

maybe she's been captured by aliens and brainwashed

salt78

Don't you have any real life friends? No one on this board even really knows or gives a crap about who you are.

nda_roxybabe

I never said your life was BS. In fact, I told you I went through a smiliar situation which I would have been happy to talk to you about but you DD'd.

janedoe1113a

Apparently I missed something.And I thought your FI wasn't going to therapy with you?

lillianchameleon

I made an update on here before a couple weeks ago... My FI broke things off for awhile and its been a sh**t storm.  A couple people posted to keep them updated on everything and I was.

lillianchameleon

No, I said he wasn't going to go to individual therapy.Again I apologize about the DD.  Absolute moment of frustration

TurtlesAllTheWayDown

I thought you guys were LDR? How do you swing couples therapy?

janedoe1113a

Could you update me with the update?

salt78

It makes me sad that someone needs couples counseling at like 20 years old.

tmm140

Your right!! At that age, it's time to start over and find someone less lame.

crfische

Ummm...and you and your therapist having a deal to have him believe he's going to be a fighter pilot is just not cool. You're already creating a triangle against him.

lillianchameleon

I don't have any family besides my mom.  And my friends are all preoccupied with getting into grad school and whatnot so its really difficult, because they are really uninterested in marriage or relationship chat.

[Deleted User]

That's just sad to me. If they are real friends, they'll take a fuucking second to listen to you and help you out.

crfische

because they are really uninterested in marriage or relationship chat.They don't have to be interested in that, but if they are interested in your, then they should be interested in relationship chat.Your friends blow. And I still think you're fake.

mwhitson14

A couple people posted to keep them updated on everything and I was.I was thinking most posters told you not to get back with him?

tmm140

I think a lot of people did, obviously her eyes glazed over during that post and she missed all of those

janedoe1113a

Grad school at age 20? 

Bec&Jim

Navy- Apparently shes Doogie Howser or something. Im 26 and just now looking into Grad School.

dubiousscruples

Just as a reply: it's totally normal and acceptable to go to couples therapy in your 20s. A lot of people (I don't mean anyone specific, but in general) have no idea how to even be in a relationship. You can learn that in couples therapy. No, it doesn't mean you have to be with that same person forever if you don't want to be...but you could be, which is a lot more likely than if you never get the professional help of a specialized professional. (I'm in training to become a clinical psychologist, so I just had to weigh in on that!)

salt78

Yeah in your 20's. I think it's strange when you are 20. Like a year away from being legal drinking age 20. Not the entire decade.