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What should I take?

FI just told me that his boss is having some employees over for a cook out next weekend.  He likes to do a "rib fest" at his house.  When FI started job, boss & wife invited us over for dinner, and I took them a hanging plant, but that was duing the summer time.  I don't want to come empty handed.What would you ladies take to a dinner at your boss or FI's bosses house?

Re: What should I take?

  • I'd ask if I could make a dish or dessert.  I don't drink wine; I suck at picking it out. If I couldn't bring a food dish, I'd bring a nice card or some cut flowers.
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  • A bottle of wine and an appetizer.  It could be something as simple as shrip cocktail or you can make a dip. GL and HTH!
  • I would probably take some sort of dessert.  Everyone likes dessert!
  • A bottle of the couple's favorite wine or hard liquor. If they don't drink, a dessert.
  • Whenever we are going to a cookout or casual gathering, we take 7-layer dip.  It's a huge hit, and I always leave with an empty dish. :)
  • Bottle of wine, or dessert.  Or both.
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  • Thank you for the suggestion ladies! NYE that salad sounds really good, I think I will try that out sometime.
  • My choices for food dish:  pecan pie, potato salad, brownies - something I am good at making :)But, I'd also check with the host/hostess and make sure they would welcome a food contribution. Sometimes, they don't want anything like that.
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  • I think the apps or dessert are good ideas but I'd have your FI ask his boss first, "Can we help out by bringing an appetizer or something?" It's a bit presumptuous to just bring food to a party hosted by someone unless it was discussed prior to the party; to me, it sends the message that you assumed that your hosts won't prepare enough food for their guests.
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  • Good point Ring_pop.....thanks! I will have FI ask his boss if they would like us to bring anything.
  • A bottle of wine or candy. I agree with Ringpop -- do NOT bring an appetizer or dessert unless you've cleared that with the host. That's not "nice"; it's presumputuous and I know that I'd be personally be annoyed if people starting bringing meal courses to my house when I didn't ask or want them to.
  • I would bring a bottle of wine or some flowers.
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