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    My coworker has these and she will actually make her husband sleep on the couch for whatever it was she imagined he did in her dream. I guess he's used to it because they've been together for a bazillion years.
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    It sounds like you're stressed about your relationship, due to the fighting, and this is your mind's way of releasing that stress.  Don't dig too deeply for meanings behind dreams.  Sometimes you just need to take them at face value.  They're stories your mind makes up.
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    And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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    Sorry, I misread your last line. I thought it said you were fighting.Either way though, the rest of my post still stands.
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    And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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    Sometimes dreams about your relationship might have nothing to do with your relationship but something completely different. Write down the themes and look them up.
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    lol I TOTALLY wake up mad at my FI for stuff he does in my dreams.
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    Your relationship is in a transitional stage right now--getting engaged & married etc. You've probably never been so vulnerable to someone as you are to your FI right now and your brain is processing these feelings through nightmares where one of your big fears is being played out. That's my guess, at least. Sounds totally normal.
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    I totally agree with Nebb. I bet the dreams have nothing to do with your man. Do you have anxiety about being "left/ditched" by friends? Coworkers? Family?I agree - I would not stress about it. Laugh about it with your man. :)
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    I think you are worrying a lot IRL about things you can't control (cancer) and it's manifesting itself in your dreams as other things you can't control. That's what happens to me when I worry. BTW, did you get your hair cut? I loved that thread last week but I was way late in reading it. I want to see!
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    I doubt these dreams mean anything.  My H once had a dream that I cheated on him with Tom Selleck (barf) and was very mad at me the next morning.  Hehe! And never have I once cheated on him, especially not with Magnum PI.
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    Dammit, Bec beat me to it. But I do agree that sometimes your dreams can have nothing to do with the actual content... on the other hand, I think the fear of loss can be pretty intense and generalizable in situations like yours. I've had these dreams too about H, and notice them more during times of stress and feeling like things are slipping out of my control. Good luck, and don't beat up your FI too much in the middle of the night!



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    Tom Selleck... wow Thanks guys, you're all probably right. Dreams are so strange.  
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    I dreamt that DH (before he was DH) didn't show up at the altar. I woke up in tears. I kept asking him over and over if he was sure he wanted to get married, and he told me it was a silly question, but I made him tell me yes. I hate those dreams. I have chronic, severe long-term (we're talking like 10 years+) insomnia, that I take medication for, nearly nightly.  Lack of sleep messes with other issues going on, and that's a biitch for me (and others). I agree, that it's likely the stress of all that's going on in other areas of your life. It makes it so much harder when you wake up from sleep as tired as when you laid down the night before.... Hang in there, gina!
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    You should probably punch him in the face and tell him to quit leaving you in your dreams.  That should solve the problem ;)

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