I am going to a bridal shower this weekend with my FMIL. Originally, we had decided to go together on a gift for the bride and groom. She went shopping and got the gift. I've asked her a few times how much I owe, but she just kind of brushes me off and hasn't given me an amount. As far as I know, the plan is still to go together on the gift. She hasn't said otherwise, and I'd really like to write her a check for my half.
Since the shower is this weekend, I'm not going to have time to get another gift, and I don't really want to do that anyway since, like I said, I think we are still going together on the gift. What should I do? Should I just guess on an amount and write her a check for that?
I'd feel really uncomfortable putting my name on a gift that I didn't help pay for, and I don't want her to think that I'm trying to stick her with the whole amount.
Any advice you can give would be appreciated. Thank you!