I'm getting ready to send out my STDs and I really need to get this figured out. My FI is Russian Orthodox and as such we're having a traditional Orthodox wedding, which means all music in the ceremony must be choral. Luckily we're both musicians and have lots of singing friends to help us. In addition to his church choir, we've also invited the church choir I assistant direct to sing at the ceremony.
Here's my question: Do I also have to invite the spouses, etcs of my choir members?
I have been working there for 5 years but am NOT a member of the church and aside from the minister (who's wife is in the choir) and a a husband/wife team that sings, I don't really know any of their spouses. I'd really rather just have the people I know there, but I also don't want to insult anyone.