Wedding Etiquette Forum

shower invite

i'm on a roll this morning lol

so my bm asked me for a guest list for the shower she is planning... I was wondering about female friends that are more his friends than mine... do they get invited?  I figure in registering for gifts that the general rule is to only register for stuff that is for "US" and "OUR" home... so then wouldn't it make sense that the invites would be friends of "us" and not just mine?  For the most part; only one girl is really coming to mind (although I may comb the guest list again and see someone else i forgot)... we're really good friends with the guy (he's a groomsman) and he's dating this girl and she's coming to the wedding... and FH knows her from back in school and they've all hung out together and i've hung out wtih everybody too... so i'm thinking it's okay to invite her but i just wanted to make sure that's ok.  also, i guess i should get her address then for the shower invite?  i was just going to invite them together on the guy's invitation to the wedding so is that weird to get her address just for the shower?


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