I hope I didn't miss a thread about this...
1) I hope you confront your FI about his Craigslist Ad, don't marry a guy like this. He doesn't deserve you.
2) A wedding isn't worth hurting yourself! Tell your FI, your parents, get help - cutting is not the answer and your wedding shouldn't be so stressful that you're cutting yourself! Please talk to someone - if you dont know who to talk to feel free to PM me - even if I dont know you. I just would hate to see someone I love do this to themselves - especially not over a wedding.
3) H never "squeezes" (thats what we call spooning) me anymore - I need to tell him it bothers me - thanks for reminding me. Maybe he doesn't realize it bothers you? I think you might have a case of the post wedding blues - there's so much excitement leading up to the wedding and then it's over...ya know? Cheer up, sunshine and tell your H it's bothering you!
4) I'm interested to know your reasoning...