Gifts for girls bringing up the gifts...

I am going to ask my two cousins (ages 12 & 14) to "bring up the gifts" during our Catholic ceremony.

I am wondering if I need to get them a gift for doing this for us.

Also, will they need to be at the rehearsal and therefore the rehearsal dinner?

I don't mind getting them a gift (maybe an itunes gc or something like that) and I also don't mind them being at the rehearsal & dinner, I'm just wondering if they'll need to be there...I dont want to inconvenience them and their parents by making them come if its not that important.  
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