Hope I got that right.
RE:The death of my MIL
She came to dinner when we returned from HM. Lovely lady but older, my Ex was 12 years older than I even, the next to the youngest of 11.
She had dinner, I think she enjoyed it, she complimented my cooking. But then she died.
Totally natural causes, heart problems that existed long before the wedding or the dinner.
I hope that satisfies your curiosity and I do know my comment seemed a bit weird.
I swear that it was not intentional!