see new post- forgot poll

PharmacyBride

see new post .. i forgot the poll

opalsky007

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_parents-co-workers-invited?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:164cb6fb-349c-40b1-846b-34bc16eb189dPost:fcd4b369-99a6-4a27-aa46-ed933d5e8f9e">Do parent's co-workers get invited?</a>:
[QUOTE]I am a MOH in a wedding.  The bride is trying to cut down the guest list- the bride's family is worried about the cost (can you blame them- 300 people at a nice venue?!?). The bride feels bad about asking the FMIL to cut her list even more.  (The FMIL is not paying for the extras and is using guilt against the bride.)  Then the bride tells me: "I feel bad - she already had to cut their co-workers?" <strong>I told her that I was surprised they were on the list in the first place.  Unless co-workers are the parents' BFs - they aren't expected to be invited. </strong>I don't know if the bride has been manipulated into believing this is a big cut to make or if I am wrong.  So please let me know what is normal.
Posted by PharmacyBride[/QUOTE]

My reaction exactly.

sucrets4

Calling people bitches and then requesting advice most certainly isn't normal.

MeaghanandMichael

You're effin' stupid.

Oh wait, I forgot, that is what YOU said happens.

PharmacyBride

I am canceling this post only cuz i forgot the poll.  I will repost it shortly with the poll  thanks for the advice already.  I hit cancel as soon as I accidentally hit post- but it still posted.
PS  sucrets- you have a good memory- but I think most people on the knot are awesome- I just get annoyed sometimes when certain people attack others..  but like i said- if you want to attack me that is fine.  i am just curious about this and it came up in convo tonight.

sucrets4

Memory?  You went on your tirade (on SB, if anyone is curious) yesterday.

And there has been no attacking going on here.

danieliza1127

Seriously?  Please don't create a whole new post just to ask the same question.  People will respond here, you don't need a poll.

MeaghanandMichael

*Ahem* no one attacked you. Stop crying victim.

PharmacyBride

I didn't mean to imply I was being attacked.  I didn't think you were attacking me.  I was just saying that by posting something that pissed you guys off earlier - I know I set myself up to get what I have coming to me.

Polls are an easy way for the OP to get quick answers- and I couldn't add one to this post.  Since it was within 10 minutes- I just reposted.  Didn't expect so many quick responses so sorry if this is inconvenient for you guys.

sucrets4

It's not inconvenient, just annoying.