My future sister-in-law (wife of brother-in-law) sent me an email saying she wanted to have a tea for me.
I do not want any kind of shower - even the thought gives me great anxiety (can't explain why).
My FI had issues with his ex-wife and his family over wedding stuff and I don't wan't to be the cause of any issues now.
Here is the response I was planning on sending:
I truly appreciate the offer for the tea, and I hope you will understand that I would rather not have anything. I am not comfortable in that kind of setting.
I am very gratful that you thought of doing something. Thank you so much, it means a lot to me.
thoughts? please help!!!
Some times the right guy does come aroud twice!********
83 Are coming to share our joy!
37 Will be missing out!
0 Are Driving me crazy by not retruning that postage paid card! We called on the due date and pestered for answers!