I go to a small crossfit gym (think 1200 sf) that I really enjoy-the people are great, the workouts are great, and it's relatively convenient to where I live. Recently, a new woman started coming to the 6:30PM class I attend (this is the last class in the evening and unfortunately the only time I can make it since I try to get to work before 8 and struggle to leave by 5:20 just to make it to crossfit). She has bad body odor--we noticed it last week when she first came, and it was really bad. It's not just a lack of deodorant--this is going to sound really gross, but it smelled like she had a gynecological issue going on and it permeated our small gym. We were hoping it was a one time thing (i.e. forgot to wear deodorant or something) but she seemed to have the same issue going on today, though not quite as bad.
Unfortunately, she is new and none of us know her, so we're not quite sure how to bring this up. We talked to the coach today after class and it turns out she's not even a member-she just drops in a few times a week. He said there's nothing he can do since he can'thave that kind of conversation with her--but he did say if she was a male, he'd have no problem saying something (I get it though since it would be an awkward convo for a male to have with a female). We have no female coaches, so no options there.
It's too small of a gym to move elsewhere, and most of us go to the 6:30PM class because there's no other time we can make it. Two options:
1) A few of us women talk to her after class someday, and politely mention that her body odor is making us uncomfortable. Risk: I'm afraid this will come off as b*tchy/catty and would make her feel ganged up on.
2) Wait until we see the owner's wife (she usually works out with us on Saturdays) and talk to her and see if she wouldn't mind saying something. Risk: Owner's wife may not want to say something since it is her family's business.
This feels like a 3rd grade kind of issue, but I'd really like to hear what you ladies think the most diplomatic way of handling this might be. It needs to be addressed, or I think some of us regulars will be looking for a new gym.
EDIT: I realize this is a gym and we don't all smell like Chanel and roses...but none of us smell bad enough to make those around us physically nauseous.