Hi ladies
My MOH and Mom are planning my shower and have asked me for a guest list. They won't be inviting anyone who isn't invited to the wedding, but should I bother inviting friends who are out of state who I know won't be able to make it?
Is it nicer for them to know they are wanted there, or does that look like fishing for presents?
Also, do I invite FI's aunts/ female cousins that I don't know that well? I'm close with most of his family, but there are a couple Aunts I haven't seen in a while and am not close with. I would like your thoughts.
Thanks!