For starter's my parents are divorced and the way they have chosen to split the bill is dad is paying for the reception and my mom is paying for the ceremony/flowers/cake/dress. When I was engaged 6 months ago, my father gave me a budget for the reception and if I went over I would pay the difference. Since that day, we have booked the venue which includes catering and it is under that said budget (whew!). Now, 6 months later, my dad has decided to change that budget (by about 5 grand less ) and is expecting us to pick up whatever he doesnt feel like paying that day when all the final payment is due. What would you do in this situation. As mad as I am and as much as I want to yell at him, he still is (supposedly) picking up the tab on some of it so I am grateful. But how can you tell him that that is totally wrong of him to do in a nice way? I'm losing faith in him and am scared that when my final payment is due (30 days before the wedding) that he is not going to pay it. It is totally stressing me out. What would you do in this situation. Thanks knotties!!!