I agree it can come off as 'look how kind we are' type thing too...but at least its not jordan almonds left on the table at the end of the night...
Ditto almost everything. I don't get:-Having more than 1 dress-Engagement sessions-Trash the dress sessions-Choreographed dances-1/4 of your guest list being in the WP-Cowboy boots for brides-Spending insane amounts of money on a wedding dress-How people actually cry when they put on "the dress"-Justifying having no bar by saying "we don't drink"-Justifying having no kids by saying "they don't need to see adults drinking"
Of course you needed 2 Fish. One to hold the bouquet, and one to hold the margarita.
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