So last night I was chatting with some friends and we got into a heated debated, so I thought I'd see what everyone's opinions on here are...
So one friend wants to get her vows renewed every 10 years.... I told her that her vows don't expire every 10 years and having a vow renewal is pretty silly. She got super insulted.
I always looked at vow renewals as something a couple does when they've had trouble with their marriage.
Another friend there said that she wants to have one because her wedding was very small and she wants something bigger. I'm confused, because no matter what kind of wedding you've had it's still the day you got married, therefore it's special. Why would you want to sort of redo it?
I think having a 25 year, 50 year, etc anniversary party is fun and worth celebrating.... but a vow renewal, where you get into a wedding dress, have a ceremony and then a reception? Doesn't that make your actual wedding day less special?
Maybe I'm looking at vow renewals is wrong?
What are your thoughts on vow renewals?