So, I have a friend from childhood, that I never felt that close to and always saw as a fair weather friend. She saw me as one of her best friends for whatever reason. I've always had my issues with her getting on my nerves for the main reason that the only time she calls is when she's inbetween relationships or needs something. So, last summer, she met my boyfriend of 3 years (shows how close I was to her). And then last winter met him again briefly when we stopped by a bar for a friend's birthday.
A few months later, one of her numerous boyfriends dumped her. So she calls my boyfriend, crying, a guy she's met twice. So I was pissed. I am a jealous person I admit that, but why call a guy you've met twice? So that happened I moved on. Then she starts calling again, for whatever reason she can come up with. She even texted me once to see if we could get together, I said no I'm working out of state that week, and so she turns around and calls him and tries to get him to go out with her alone. She's called many times trying to get him to go to lunch with her and she fully knows I won't be around.
We got engaged in July, and she called him, not me. Seriously? And she goes around telling everyone I'm her closest friend! She calls everyother week or so, last week it was to ask him who my bridesmaids were, and then made him feel guilty about her not being one of them. So last night I got really aggrevated over it and was about to call her and tell her that she was lunatic and he told me that I should think about it because I'd be causing drama and ruining a friendship. So I held back and asked him to just ignore her calls. Today she calls, he doesn't pick up, and she calls back 3 times, he picks up and she had been in a car accident, she was fine, just shooken up and wanted some to talk to. Seriously, you call a person you've met twice and haven't seen in 10 months on top of it? I question her motives and if she doesn't have motives, I question her social skills.
Also a fact to note, I'm not questioning my FI at all, he's told me everytime she's called and was there the first time it happened and all he was polite and friendly.
Am I overreacting? Can I give her a piece of mind? She's driving me crazy.
