I'll spare you the details, as I'm sure all of you have been through the stresses, but I am really about to bail on my wedding plans.
I've been asking for JOP since day 1, and no matter which path we chose we know we want it to be just the two of us. It's just that FI really wants to do a getaway also - at least out of state, if not out of the country - but even an elopement/destination wedding is getting too much for me. He doesn't feel like a JOP would commemorate the day, or be a big enough celebration to really mark it, even if it's followed by a nice weekend at the B&B, or even performed at a small location (fireplace/garden/candles/dinner/flowers) nearby. There's something about getting out of the city that he really needs, but it's stressing us both out too much and it's so hard to chose the "pefect" place.
Ooops, I told you I wasn't going to go on and on
So, tell me about your super small elopement please! I'm looking for some solid arguments for staying home and have it still "feel like a wedding". Thanks!
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