Wedding Etiquette Forum

Touchy Situation Possible

First off, I belong to a nationally recognized organization, and I have been in several offices (but not as the head of the group).  With that being said, here is my problem:

I have overheard that someone from this chapter may want to throw me a shower and invite other members of the chapter to it and no one else.  I have no problem with that.

My problem is that because of budget restrictions, I was not planning on having any of these people at my wedding.

So my question is this:  if there is a shower, am I obligated to invite them to the wedding?  I know I can decline having one but feel that there may be those disappointed.
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