Invitations for my wedding went out last week to everyone on the list I gave my mom. I didn't originally want to invite anyone from work because I didn't want to have to worry about looking like a bad guy for inviting only one or two people (I'm casual acquaintances with most everyone except for a couple of people.) The only person I would have invited is one of my managers. But because of conflict of interest, I didn't. I didn't want it to look like I was trying to suck up to her.
Well, last week I found out that she put in her two weeks and won't be there past this Sunday (she's gonna be on vacation next week). I put in my two weeks as well this week on Monday (already planned before I found out she was leaving). No one at work knows that I sent my invitiations out and it is still within the 6-8 week window for getting them out. I haven't told anyone because I don't wan't people asking if they are getting one.
I would like to go ahead and extend an invitation to the wedding to her and her husband. She and I became really close while I was working there, and I would like to have her there. I don't have any actual physical invitations (my mom has them all). I should have included her on the original list, but I didn't and now after finding out she is leaving, I realized how much I want her there.
Would this be considered rude or B-listing? Also, since I don't have a physical invitation in hand, how would be best to give her the information? My last day with her is Thursday (I have off this weekend). I have her phone number so I could get an address if I needed to to send it to her.
Thank you! And this is gonna be a P&R because I have to get ready for work, but I'll be checking responses later.