Wedding Etiquette Forum

Thank you's for engagement gifts?

My fiance and I had an engagement and housewarming party Saturday night, and were surprised by a very high turnout, which made it really hard to keep straight who gave us what if they didn't attach a card. To complicate matters further, I had to have surgery yesterday morning, and the pain medication makes me far too out of it to write personal thanks you's. (I have been known to write some pretty crazy emails when doped up, not even going to attempt notes this week!)  So my questions are: How long do you have to send thanks you's from an engagement party? I know for weddings they say you have the first year, (although I have no intention of doing that!) but this is a mystery to me. And is it totally tasteless to try to ask who gave us a particular gift? I really want to make sure everyone gets thanked!

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