Flower Girl and Ring Bearer

jinxed8605

My fiance and I are hesitant about what to do for a FG/RB. I have two little half brothers of the same age but both are WAY too hyper to have as RB, one more so than the other. I really dont want to pick one and have the other get upset. And for a FG neither of us have female siblings or other family (or children of friends even) that are old enough to be a FG. Would it be weird to not have a RB or  FG?

Leah&Christian09

Neither a FG nor a RB are necessary.  Just say you've decided not to have children in the WP and save yourself the headache.

ellinger84

We're not having a RB or FG.  Neither of us have young children in our families and none of our friends have kids.  I've been to enough weddings when the FG or RB has been a major distraction in the ceremony (screaming, refusing to walk down the aisle, crying), that I'm ok with not having either.

danieliza1127

We had way too many kids to choose from too, so we didn't have a RB or FG at all.  I was happy with that anyway because I think kids in weddings are more trouble than their worth.  I definitely don't think couples should pick kids just to fill the roles.  If I were you guys, I just wouldn't have any kids in the wedding.

ffmaid

Picking 1 sibling but not the other with little kids is not a good idea Skip having FG or RB and then just have a picture taken with them so you still get the cute effect. The main job of FG and RB is just cute anyway  

wdc*bride

As an adult, with our generation, I've only been to one wedding with an FG, and none with a RB.  Not weird at all.