We are less than 3 weeks away from our wedding, Yay! FMIL is still trying to invite more people I have never met (FI and I are footing the bill for the entire wedding) and will not stop insisting to us and everyone repeatedly that our caterer is being ridiculous for not allowing appetizers that she wants to make herself served by his staff nor in addition to the food we are paying for. I, along with her own family members have told her that he won't serve the food because he cannot control the quality of its preparation nor is he making any money on it. I think she might still try to sneak it in despite us telling her that its not worth pissing the caterer off on our wedding day. We are paying him to do a job and I just wish she would stay out of it. And to top it all off, my deadbeat dad (I was raised by my aunt and uncle) is pitching a fit about not giving me away at the wedding and is telling family members he probably just won't come because everyone will look down upon him as the "dad who isn't walking his daughter down the aisle" I've been pretty relaxed about the whole wedding up until lately and I just feel that one more thing is really going to put me over the edge.