wedding party gifts...

futrmrsbevs

I have a very large wedding party and we are doing the gifts of course. For my girls I am getting their shoes, having wristletts maide for them with their names and our wedding date stitched inside, their jewlery, flower hair clips, custom mirrors for each and something else a small and personal from me.
For the grooms men I have no idea what to get. There is not one thing they all have in common or enjoy. I dont want to seem like I am cheating them out of anything and I know guys view weddings and the customs different then us ladies, but I still want to be fair and show them how much they mean to us.
Any ideas?

Thanks!

dancerbrat531

Wow that's a tough one. You might just have to settle on a different present for each GM. It might help to discuss things with your FI to see his take on what the presents should be (maybe a man's perspective will help). Or browse through the catalog of www.exclusivelyweddings.com to maybe get some ideas for gifts. I'm sure things will work out for you!

jessicabessica

If they are mainly your FI's friends, have him shop for them like it's their birthdays and pick out something personal for each one. 

A sidenote--if you are requiring the bridesmaids to wear certain things beyond a particular dress in the wedding, those items aren't really gifts to them. 

TurtlesAllTheWayDown

Shoes? If they're for the wedding, that's not a "gift." If they're just a cool pair of shoes, have at it.

I'd just set a price point (similar to what you're spending on your BMs) and buy them each something different. Sports or events tickets, a nice bottle of scotch and some glassware, or a GC to a restaurant they like could be ideas. Ask your FI for what they'd like. What would he get them for a nice birthday gift?