My Husband and I were married two weeks ago. We went on a wonderful honeymoon and returned last week. Prior to leaving we had a day to open the cards we received at the wedding. We were very fortunate to have been given both checks and cash as gifts. The cash we took on our honeymoon. The checks we left at our house to deposit afterwards. When we got home, we went looking for the checks and can not find them anywhere. We have torn our house apart, looking in every shoe, coat pocket, behind appliances, everywhere. What do we do now? It doesnt appear that anyone would have broken in and stolen them, but we have searched so much we are starting to think that is the only explanation. Do we alert the guests who gifted checks that there is a possibility they were stolen in case they want to stop payment? We would offer to pay any fees associated with doing that, but is that appropriate? We are not trying to get additional gifts or have people think we are fishing for more either. We are so upset and embarassed, we don't know how to proceed.