Got involved in a sticky situation and am now being asked to lie. I was invited to a back party for a friend this past weekend. It was small,we stayed over night in a hotel went to a drag show and ice skating. I asked why the SIL (she is a ton of fun and I really admire her) was not invited and was told "she couldn't make it" which was a lie. So after the other guests splashed pictures and whatnot all over FB about the great party, the SIL weighs in that she was really hurt not to have been invited. I don't blame her, they spend every holiday together. So now I am expected to lie and cover up that this was spontaneous and not planned. I don't want to lie about this as her SIL has been through thick and thin. with her...I think she deserved alot better than this. Any thoughts? Also, if anyone out there is planning to diss people and not invite them to events, keep it off Facebook, or you are gonna create a world of hurt that will creep into your wedding joy.