Etiquette

How do I tell people...

That we aren't going to be able to pay for them at the "reception"?  We are doing a destination wedding in San Diego and we're paying for it ourselves.  We are a little more than a month out at this point and I still haven't addressed this.  

We planned on doing a get together at a bar after the wedding like normal, but we aren't renting the space, just reserving tables like you would at any restauarant.  I didn't want to put it on the invitations of course (they also didn't include any menu choices) but I'm not sure how to address it.  I'm assuming I should just call everyone that RSVP'd and tell them verbally?
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