Thanks everybody who helped me out with my hotel question earlier today - I have a lot of new things to think about.
My other big logistics problem is transportation for guests. The ceremony location is about 20 minutes away from the reception, on a different barrier island and across a toll bridge. Parking is rough but not impossible at the reception hotel, but at Lucy the Elephant it is a nightmare. They share their lot with a restaurant across the street, and they pretty much told me that they can guarantee me only 2 spots for 85 guests. Otherwise people would have to look for street parking, and looking for street parking in a Jersey shore town on a Saturday in August is no fun.
So I'm thinking that I need some kind of shuttle where guests can park at the reception and be taken to Lucy for the ceremony.
Here are my questions: Did you do any kind of guest shuttle for your wedding? If I may be so rude as to ask, what did it cost and where do you live? Were you happy with how it turned out?
Also, if you were a guest and your shuttle was a yellow school bus driven by my cousin Jimmy from Bayonne who calls everybody "youse guys", would you think I was a cheapo?

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