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How to word invite for spa day?

The day before the wedding I would like to take the ladies in my family and FI family out to a spa for manis/pedis/massages/facials whatever.   I am willing/able to pay up to $100 per person for the treatments of their choice.   Some treatments are more than $100 some are less.   I was going to send out an email to all the ladies with a link to the services offered at the spa so they can choose the services they want and I can get them booked.  If people don't want to come that is ok, this is not a requirement I just thought it would be fun to bond and relax.   I'm struggling with how to word this.  Any suggestions?

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Re: How to word invite for spa day?

  • I would send the invitation to the guests listing the services that you are willing to provide (make sure each one is LESS/EQUAL to 100) and specify that each guest may choose one service. 

    "You are warmly invited to join the bride for a day of pampering and relaxation at ____ spa.  The Future Mrs. _____ is delighted to host your choice of a manicure, pedicure, facial, or massage.  Please indicate your choice below and return this card with your RSVP so that your spa treatments may be scheduled" 
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_how-to-word-invite-for-spa-day?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:36e55aed-c894-4ef4-a8c1-efcf003061ecPost:72a25c5c-549a-4e67-9e9e-3ce782fb0d62">Re: How to word invite for spa day?</a>:
    [QUOTE]I would send the invitation to the guests listing the services that you are willing to provide (make sure each one is LESS/EQUAL to 100) and specify that each guest may choose one service.  "You are warmly invited to join the bride for a day of pampering and relaxation at ____ spa.  The Future Mrs. _____ is delighted to host your choice of a manicure, pedicure, facial, or massage.  Please indicate your choice below and return this card with your RSVP so that your spa treatments may be scheduled" 
    Posted by NOLAbridealmost[/QUOTE]

    We did this and gave each BM a "coupon" for the amount we were hosting
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_how-to-word-invite-for-spa-day?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:36e55aed-c894-4ef4-a8c1-efcf003061ecPost:72a25c5c-549a-4e67-9e9e-3ce782fb0d62">Re: How to word invite for spa day?</a>:
    [QUOTE]I would send the invitation to the guests listing the services that you are willing to provide (make sure each one is LESS/EQUAL to 100) and specify that each guest may choose one service.  "You are warmly invited to join the bride for a day of pampering and relaxation at ____ spa.  The Future Mrs. _____ is delighted to host your choice of a manicure, pedicure, facial, or massage.  Please indicate your choice below and return this card with your RSVP so that your spa treatments may be scheduled" 
    Posted by NOLAbridealmost[/QUOTE]

    <div>I love this wording.  I'd go with this.</div>
  • Thanks ladies.

    August 2012 - Married! Follow Me on Pinterest
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