Another new KPS

annakb8

http://theknotpostsecret.tumblr.com/post/14217313592

Um. I think you should probably talk to a therapist about this. I don't really have any other advice.

musicalsunlight

1. Oh my goodness, I'm sorry that happened to you -- like Anna said I hope you have or will see someone and talk about this stuff. I wonder if your H knows? I hope you ar getting the support you need after something so awful.

2. Sorry it bothers you. I don't think it will change though.

KarleeKrause35

That is so awful. Hoping the poster gets the help she needs to heal.

musicalsunlight

Woops. I've been MIA so didn't bother to see we already discussed #2. Oh well.

ski2play

That KPS is scary.  Hopefully the orignal poster has moved from the location this happened at.  I agree with Anna that this is of the level that a therapist could be of assistance so that you can come to terms with it.  Good Luck KPS poster.

baystateapple

Agree with PP.  I am so sorry that this happened to you, and you really should seek the help of a counselor or psychologist.  Does your H know that this happened to you?  I'm sure he would want to know that you had been hurt like that, and to help you heal.

I'm so sorry.

eorea

Wow. I'm so sorry that happened to you. That is terrible. Anna is right. You should really see therapist.

sparent2010

I really have no advice. That's pretty nuts

sleblanc72

That's horrble and I'm so sorry that happened to you, I would definitely say see a therapist.

dumdumfroggie

That's scary, OP.  I would definitely talk to someone about that.  Also, I think most online dating sites have a report feature.  Have you considered reporting this guy?

ETA:  Also, the fact that you stayed the night and then said you'd call him later after this is concerning to me.  No one should treat you like this. Please find someone to talk to.

annakb8

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_another-new-kps?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:372a0cb2-4b5c-4bc6-a83f-91a98e6b004aPost:5596769b-8d66-492d-ab75-cf059176bdbf">Re: Another new KPS</a>:
[QUOTE]Unrelated to KPS ... I'm seriously thinking of taking a break from TK for a while. These IT errors have been happening for over two weeks.<strong> It makes it impossible to read any thread coherently. I almost wonder if it is being done of purpose to try to push the regs off the boards.</strong> /conspiracytheory
Posted by cfaszews25[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>This thought has crossed my mind. We can be conspiracy theorists together.

</div>

PetalPockets2012

Like everyone else, I think you should see a therapist. I can't imagine how you must feel. Good luck.

achiduck

I am so sorry that you went through that. I would seek the aid of a therapist immediately.

[Deleted User]

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_another-new-kps?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:372a0cb2-4b5c-4bc6-a83f-91a98e6b004aPost:96ce07bd-727f-42bb-bcd8-f3d3f8baa150">Re: Another new KPS</a>:
[QUOTE]Sesh - Where are you on TN?
Posted by cfaszews25[/QUOTE]

January 2006 boards. The link is on the SB sticky.

andrea2473

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_another-new-kps?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:372a0cb2-4b5c-4bc6-a83f-91a98e6b004aPost:5596769b-8d66-492d-ab75-cf059176bdbf">Re: Another new KPS</a>:
[QUOTE]Unrelated to KPS ... I'm seriously thinking of taking a break from TK for a while. These IT errors have been happening for over two weeks. It makes it impossible to read any thread coherently.<strong> I almost wonder if it is being done of purpose to try to push the regs off the boards. /conspiracytheory
</strong>Posted by cfaszews25[/QUOTE]

I'm a half reg/half lurker and I am i2i with you on this. 

mari0225

That's awful, I think I would see a therapist it would be helpful.

[Deleted User]

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_another-new-kps?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:372a0cb2-4b5c-4bc6-a83f-91a98e6b004aPost:5596769b-8d66-492d-ab75-cf059176bdbf">Re: Another new KPS</a>:
[QUOTE]Unrelated to KPS ... I'm seriously thinking of taking a break from TK for a while. These IT errors have been happening for over two weeks. It makes it impossible to read any thread coherently. I almost wonder if it is being done of purpose to try to push the regs off the boards. /conspiracytheory
Posted by cfaszews25[/QUOTE]

Join us on TN. The format sucks, but at leas the posts are in order.

To the KPS person, that is an awful experience. The guy is a piece of shiit and used you, and his words are worthless. I'm surprised you let him sleep over after showing that kind of violence. I'm curious how he acted during the rest of the date because that kind of change would make me fear for my safety.

mkrupar

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_another-new-kps?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:372a0cb2-4b5c-4bc6-a83f-91a98e6b004aPost:f1ddacd0-14cd-4494-a3aa-3c827080eb3c">Re: Another new KPS</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Another new KPS : This thought has crossed my mind. We can be conspiracy theorists together.
Posted by annakb8[/QUOTE]

Add me to the conspiracy. I come back after hours/days away thinking something is fixed, but it's not. same shiit different day.