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Missing gift

We received a generous check at our reception from people we don't know well who travelled across the country to celebrate with our family.  Somewhere between then and when we got home the check went missing.  I sent a thank you note right away, but it's been a few months, and they might be wondering why their check hasn't cleared, although they haven't said anything.  What should we do? 

Re: Missing gift

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    Yeah, if you're certain it was a check, go ahead and contact them.

    Or if they're closer to your parents, maybe your parents can do the contacting for you. (I had a bunch of envelopes stolen from my reception at my first wedding 12 years ago and my MIL took care of contacting the givers. It was really nice that she did this and made it significantly less awkward)
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