I went to my local bar and after a little while the bartender gave me a shot and said "this is from that couple over there, she has talked to you on the web"... I looked over and it was YaPuppy.... she is getting married here on Saturday..
Luckily she liked my suggestions. Her location has to shut down at 10:30 for noise ordinance issues and I suggested this bar for the after party and it is prefect for her group.
Anyway.. I thought it was pretty cool that I met a knottie tonight. It does not happen very often especially here.
What differentiates an average host and a great host is anticipating unexpressed needs and wants of their guests. Just because the want/need is not expressed, doesn't mean it wouldn't be appreciated.