I don't post much over here but you ladies seem to give great advice so: So FI has the chance to go to Indiana for 2 months for work. He currently makes about $300 a week at his job and his boss is offering an extra $300 for the guys that go. It would end up being an extra $2700 which would help us alot. However he doesn't want to go, but only because he has never flown before and they would be flying down. He is scared of flying, BUT he is willing to fly for our honeymoon. I really think he should go but he is refusing because of the flight. If he had any other reason for not wanting to go I would understand. Do you think I'm being too pushy? And any ideas to help him get over this fear?