My sister complained and complained until I let her be in my wedding party. We have a good relationship but this year she has began to get a foul mouth, cursing in public, at people, on the phone, whereever, and she has been very negative. If she isn't right then she is miserable. My parents have always let her have her way with everything. She will be 16 when My FI and I get married.
For the past 3 days I have been pushing her to get to the store downtown and try on the bridesmaids dress and she keeps telling me she has better things to do.
SO yesterday I told her it was the last day we could go because she is off of spring break starting Monday. And I told her that if she doesnt go to school all week she isnt being in the bridal party (has missed maybe 70 days of school due to lazyness, depression, or just because my parents didnt make her). Instead she stays home watches TV, lays down etc.
She told me to eff off and that she didnt care about the wedding and she doesnt feel like being in it.
So i told her fine. I feel like that is wrong though.
I just dont want her disrespecting my other bridesmaids with her behavior and since she has been so negative about the whole process i figure its better
what do you think? Is it wrong to tell ehr she cant be in the bridal party eben though she said she didnt care and wouldnt be in it?
Update 4/16 12:30 AM I look after her almost everyday. Dad and Mom are divorced, Mom's never home, I have to watch my sister when my mom isnt there. Since shes a wild child now and usually always punished.